Hi all, I've been diagnosed about 2 weeks ago. Have my tumor on the side of my tongue. I've had my CT and Mri scans. CT came back clear. MRI I get the results onn16th March.
I feel shocked, numb and angry. My dentist should have referred me about 6 months ago as I kept stressing this thing on my tongue was not healing. Plus my wee Jack Russell has been licking that side of my face for about 6 months as well.
I'm scared. Trying to stay focused...but!
I'm self employed and do not know what to sort first.
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