I am a 39 female and have just been diagnosed with stage IV colorectal cancer and am awaiting my first appointment with my doctor.
I am generally feeling a bit lost and definitely overwhelmed with everything that is going on, juggling appointments and tests and such. I am also struggling with pain which has been so variable and difficult to manage and is keeping me up most nights.
Is this normal in the beginning?
Hi and welcome to the Online Community although I am so sorry to hear about your diagnosis, this must have come as a shock to you. This is such a stressful and challenging time for you but I do hope you find the community a safe place to get support and ask your questions.
The New to Community area is like our reception desk where we can signpost you on to our various cancer support groups and other services.
I do see you have joined and posted in our supportive Bowel (colon and rectum) cancer group. This will be a safe place to talk to others who may have a similar diagnosis, treatment experience, to ask questions and get support.
The Macmillan Support Line is open 8am-8pm (timings may differ across services) 7 days a week on 0808 808 00 00 or via Webchat and Email too. This service provides cancer information, practical information, emotional support, benefits/financial guidance or just a listening ear. You may also find our Ask an Expert section helpful but do allow a few working days for a reply.
To find information covering diagnosis, treatments and pages covering most types of cancers check our Online Information and Support Section.
Talking to people face to face can be very helpful but during these strange times it’s not that available but do check to see if any Local Macmillan Support in your area has opened up. Do also check out for a local Maggie's Centre in your area as these folks are amazing.
Always around if you need further help in navigating the community.
All the very best ((hugs))
