Hi
Ive just been told I have anal cancer , my 1st appointment with the cancer specialist is 3rd March . I'm very stressed and not sleeping , I'm trying to be strong and positive and I put on a brave front for my partner and family. But truth be know I'm heartbroken inside , ive contacted my doctor today and I've been given diazapan to help me get a good night's sleep , hoping this will help with my stress and anxiety. I've been told I'm in the early stages and by having 6 weeks of chemo and radiotherapy it's a good chance I won't need surgery , but we will have to wait and see.
My worse fears are not getting cleared of this, ive lost 3 close family members to cancer and I find I keep reliving the days I lost them , and its freaking me out.
Just need someone to share how I feel without upsetting close family . Xx
Hi and welcome to the Online Community although I am so sorry to hear about your diagnosis, this must have come as a shock. This is such a stressful and challenging time for you but I do hope you find the community a safe place to get support and ask your questions.
The New to Community area is like our reception desk where we can signpost you on to our various cancer support groups and other services so can I recommend that you consider joining our supportive Anal cancer group. This will be a safe place to talk to others who may have a similar diagnosis, treatment experience, to ask questions and get support.
If you'd like to connect in with a group click on the Green link I have created above. Then once the page opens click on the black banner that says [click to join] at the bottom, or the [Join] button under "Group tools."
You can then introduce yourself by putting up a ‘new post’ by clicking in the box near the top right with + New or + (Depending on the device you are using) and you are ready to go.
You could copy and paste the text from this post into your new post and as always you can reply to existing ‘Discussions’ by click [reply].
The Macmillan Support Line is open 8am-8pm (timings may differ across services) 7 days a week on 0808 808 00 00 or via Webchat and Email too. This service provides cancer information, practical information, emotional support, benefits/financial guidance or just a listening ear. You may also find our Ask an Expert section helpful but do allow a few working days for a reply.
To find information covering diagnosis, treatments and pages covering most types of cancers check our Online Information and Support Section.
Talking to people face to face can be very helpful but during these strange times it’s not that available but do check to see if any Local Macmillan Support in your area has opened up. Do also check out for a local Maggie's Centre in your area as these folks are amazing.
Always around if you need further help in navigating the community.
All the very best
