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Diagnosed with idc last friday and booked for lumpectomy this monday. Grade 2 25mm er and pr positive but Her2 negative. I know that RT and hormone therapy is definitely on the cards but still not sure about  chemo.  Was told that it may be of benefit to me depending on her2 and oncyx result. I am 50 and perimenopausal. (Thought i was coming to an end until this morning) im a bit confused as i know they take into consideration over or under 50 and pre or post menopause so im borderline on both. Im also  concerned that they may find DCIS  during surgery. I have spent the last 10 years being treated for  vulval CIS and  VIN3 with numerous  surgeries and painful immunotherapy creams so this is a real kick in the teeth.  Any advice greatly appreciated 

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