Hi, at the end of November I started to feel like I had pulled something in front of my armpit. This got worse over a week so I had a feel around and found a lump in my armpit. Went straight to the doctor (8/12/21), he sent me for urgent mammogram (30/12/21). Went in for ultrasound and they took 2 biopsies (12/01/22). Doctor said there were several abnormal lymph nodes which look malignant. Went back for results (17/01/22)- metastatic cancer and they don’t know where the original cancer is so now need to go back in for CT/MRI/bone scan (26/01 27/01 1/02). Results will be on 07/02/22.
The pain in my left breast is getting worse and I can’t help thinking everything is taking so long that by the time I get results they will tell me it’s terminal. The wait and not knowing is so hard. Most days I’m trying to be positive but today’s not one of those days
Hi and a very warm welcome to the Online Community although I am so sorry to hear about your ongoing diagnosis. This is such a challenging and stressful time for you especially all the seating for results but I do hope you find the community a safe place to get support and ask your questions.
The New to Community is like our reception desk where we can signpost you to our various cancer specific support groups and other services.
If you care to look through this list you will find all our many dedicated cancer support groups listed. These are safe places to talk to others who may have a similar diagnosis, treatment experience, to ask questions and get support.
If you'd like to connect in with a group, you do need to join the group. Click on the Green link I have created above. Then once the page opens click on the black banner that says [click to join] at the bottom, or the [Join] button under "Group tools."
You can then introduce yourself by putting up a ‘new post’ by clicking in the box near the top right with + New (Computers) or + (Mobile Devices). You will then see a dropdown menu so hit ‘Chat’ or ‘Start a Discussion in New here, say hello’ and you are ready to go.
You could copy and paste the text from this your first post. You can also search through existing ‘Discussions’ and click [reply] if you want to put up a comment.
The Macmillan Support Line is open 8am-8pm (timings may differ across services) 7 days a week on 0808 808 00 00 or via Webchat and Email too. This service provides cancer information, practical information, emotional support, benefits/financial guidance or just a listening ear. You may also find our Ask an Expert section helpful but do allow a few working days for a reply.
To find information covering diagnosis, treatments and pages covering most types of cancers check our Online Information and Support Section.
Talking to people face to face can help a lot but during these strange times it’s not that available but do check to see if any Local Macmillan Support in your area has opened up. Do also check out for a local Maggie's Centre in your area as these folks are amazing.
Always around if you need further help in navigating the community.
All the very best ((hugs))
