Diagnosis

FormerMember
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Hi all, I was diagnosed with ovarian cancer in September.

I started chemotherapy in November, I’ve had 3 treatments, an have 3 more to go.

When I got my diagnosis, my family said that they would be there for me, taking me to appointments ect.

I really don’t feel that they are taking this seriously. It feels like when I tell them that I feel awful, they seem to shrug their shoulders, like I’m being over dramatic!!

Yet, when they discuss someone they know who is dealing with the same, they take a different approach!

Am i going mas

  • Hi  and a very warm welcome to the Online Community although I am so sorry to hear about your diagnosis. This is such a challenging and stressful time for especially as you feel you are it being supported but I do hope you find the community a safe place to get support and ask your questions.

    The New to Community is like our reception desk where we can signpost you to our various cancer specific support groups and other services so can I recommend that in the first instant you consider joining our supportive Ovarian cancer group. This will be a safe place to talk to others who may have a similar diagnosis, treatment experience, to ask questions and get support.

    If you'd like to connect in with a group, you do need to join the group. Click on the Green link I have created above. Then once the page opens click on the black banner that says [click to join] at the bottom, or the [Joinbutton under "Group tools."

    You can then introduce yourself by putting up a ‘new post’ by clicking in the box near the top right with + New (Computers) or + (Mobile Devices). You will then see a dropdown menu so hit ‘Chat or Start a Discussion in New here, say helloand you are ready to go.

    You could copy and paste the text from this your first post. You can also search through existing ‘Discussions’ and click [reply] if you want to put up a comment.

    The Macmillan Support Line is open 8am-8pm (timings may differ across services) 7 days a week on 0808 808 00 00 or via Webchat and Email too. This service provides cancer information, practical information, emotional support, benefits/financial guidance or just a listening ear. You may also find our Ask an Expert section helpful but do allow a few working days for a reply.

    Talking to people face to face can help a lot but during these strange times it’s not that available but do check to see if any Local Macmillan Support in your area has opened up. Do also check out for a local Maggie's Centrein your area as these folks are amazing.

    Always around if you need further help in navigating the community.

    All the very best ((hugs))

    Mike (Thehighlander)

    It always seems impossible until its done - Nelson Mandela

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