im alone and just want this over now .
Hi and a very warm welcome to the Online Community although I am so sorry to hear about the journey you are on. This is such a challenging and stressful time for yoI but I do hope you find the community a safe place to get support and ask your questions.
The New to Community is like our reception desk where we can signpost you to our various cancer specific support groups and other services so can I recommend that in the first instant you consider joining our supportive Living with incurable cancer - incurable patients only group. This will be a safe place to talk to others who may have a similar diagnosis to ask questions and get support.
If you'd like to connect in with a group, you do need to join the group. Click on the Green link I have created above. Then once the page opens click on the black banner that says [click to join] at the bottom, or the [Join] button under "Group tools."
You can then introduce yourself by putting up a ‘new post’ by clicking in the box near the top right with + New (Computers) or + (Mobile Devices). You will then see a dropdown menu so hit ‘Chat’ or ‘Start a Discussion in New here, say hello’ and you are ready to go.
The Macmillan Support Line is open 8am-8pm (timings may differ across services) 7 days a week on 0808 808 00 00 or via Webchat and Email too. This service provides cancer information, emotional support, benefits/financial guidance or just a listening ear. You may also find our Ask an Expert section helpful but do allow a few working days for a reply.
Talking to people face to face can help a lot but during these strange times it’s not that available but do check to see if any Local Macmillan Support in your area has opened up. Do also check out for a local Maggie's Centre in your area as these folks are amazing.
Always around if you need further help in navigating the community.
All the very best.
Hi Red Cat, I'm sorry to hear about your situation, but I doubt you need sympathy from me, what you really need is support. I'm new here and I don't know all the rules etc., but if you need to talk, I'm sure where there is a will there is a way!! Or by using the messaging function. Anyway, I'm there if you need a rant.
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