My father in law got diagnosed in July and we have had to sheild me and twins from covid for very long time .He finally has meet them just after there 2nd bday .We was in hospital a while then got home as covid hit we had to sheild .Things have progressed quick manged do hand full of meets being carefully for him and us .So neverous as we not out there much but I won't my twins make memory asap as believe time is against us deterating fast .Just dunno what how or if places will help with this as he is getting a bit frail and needing it be safe for us all. Would love him have day to remember with them I ask wishes he says out side with the twins when it's nice all he says brakes me big time really need some help fast or suggestions please x
Hi and a very warm welcome to the Online Community although I am so sorry to hear about your father in law. This is such a challenging and stressful time for all the family but I do hope you will find lots of support and comfort as you connect in with the Online Community.
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