I visited my gp this week as I noticed a mole on my back has changed from a small dot to a dark 9mm oblong shape. He has referred me on a 2ww due to those things and the fact that it is flat and has grown within approx 4 months. He did tell me it look likely to be a melanoma.
I have done the worst thing possible and consulted dr Google and now I’m in a panic. I have my appointment at hospital on Monday and just wondered if anyone could offer some advice or reassurance on what to expect. I’m 39 and have a lot of moles so have always been told I have a higher risk.
many thanks
Hi and welcome to the Online Community although I am so sorry to hear about you being referred to check out this mole, this is such a hard time for you..... and yes google is a very dangerous place when it comes to medical issues... but I do hope you will find lots of support and comfort here on the Online Community.
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