Hi im new to this group my mum passed on 18 dec 2021 to cancer she faught off stomach kidney cancer with chemo we was told her cell count was going dwn gd rite wrong a another cancer hit her in her spine in a chair couldnt sit up and now she gone we nevr had a relationship and even up till the night before she died she never treid to make an effort but i miss her so much all the other Times she walked out i always new she would b bk for me but this time she cant and i dnt no were to turn to for support 
#feelinglost#cancer acidosis oxygen therapy Mesothelioma pleural mesothelioma misdiagnosis. Greiving for parent#sosad #pleasehelpme
Hi and welcome to the Online Community although I am so sorry to hear about the lose of your mum, my sincere condolences.
I lost my mum very suddenly just before Christmas 2020 so understand in part the rawness of these times.….this is such a hard time for you but I do hope you will find lots of support and comfort here on the Online Community.
The New to Community is like our reception desk where we can signpost you to our various support groups and services so can I recommend you join our Bereaved family and friends group. This will be a safe place to talk to others who are navigating a very difficult time.
If you'd like to connect in with a group, you need to join the group. First click on the Green link I have created above. Then once the page opens click on the black banner that says [click to join] at the bottom, or the [Join] button under "Group tools."
You can then introduce yourself by putting up a ‘new post’ by clicking in the box near the top right with + New (Computers) or + (Mobile Devices). You will then see a dropdown menu so hit ‘Start a Discussion in New here, say hello’ and you are ready to go.
You could copy and paste the text from this your first post. You can also search through existing ‘Discussions’ and click [reply] if you want to put up a comment.
The Macmillan Support Line is open 8am-8pm (timings may differ across services) 7 days a week on 0808 808 00 00 or via web chat. This service provides emotional support, benefits and financial guidance or just a listening ear.
Talking to people face to face can indeed help a lot but during these strange times it’s not that available but do check to see if you have any Local Macmillan Support in your area has opened up. Do also check out for a local Maggie's Centre in your area.
Always around if you need further help in navigating the community.
All the very best ((hugs))
No problem and I am always around to help out if required xx
