Hello everyone,
I found out last week I have Breast Cancer. Still need a couple more results before we can go over treatment. I am told I have the most common type of breast cancer, but I didn't really take in much more than that. Went for an MRI last week, but totally freaked out as I was about to go into the machine. I am so angry with myself, but the nurses were/are amazing. Going back on Tuesday with sedative to try again.
I work in a school, so I have been advised to stay home, just so I don/t pick up any bugs/covid, before my operation. My Headteacher has been amazing and very supportive and told me not to think about school. I have an amazing network of family and friends, but the fear is real and I know I must be strong and think positive, but that's easier said than done.
I have a 10 year old son, we are hoping to tell him tomorrow, so would appreciate any advice. I would also like advice on whether I should send him back to school, or home school at least until my operation. The Dr told me that if I get Covid, the Op will be pushed back 7 weeks ... I really need things to get moving, so I have told his school he will stay home, was that the right decision? I just worry that with families mixing over Christmas, he may bring Covid home.
Anyway, thank you for any advice you may be able to give me and I look forward to getting to know you all.
Jo.
Hi JoDo72 and welcome to the Online Community although I am so sorry to hear about your BC diagnosis, this is such a hard time for you but I do hope you will find lots of support and comfort here on the Online Community.
You may find some of these Macmillan resources helpful on understanding childrens' reactions and also talking to children when an adult has cancer. You can also download, or order a paper copy, of this booklet.
The New to Community is like our reception desk where we can signpost you to our various support groups and services so can I recommend you join our Breast cancer group. This will be a safe place to talk to others who may have a similar diagnosis or treatment experience.
If you'd like to connect in with a group, you need to join the group. First click on the Green link I have created above. Then once the page opens click on the black banner that says [click to join] at the bottom, or the [Join] button under "Group tools."
You can then introduce yourself by putting up a ‘new post’ by clicking in the box near the top right with + New (Computers) or + (Mobile Devices). You will then see a dropdown menu so hit ‘Start a Discussion in New here, say hello’ and you are ready to go.
You could copy and paste the text from this your first post. You can also search through existing ‘Discussions’ and click [reply] if you want to put up a comment.
The Macmillan Support Line is open 8am-8pm (timings may differ across services) 7 days a week on 0808 808 00 00 or via web chat. This service provides cancer information, emotional support, benefits and financial guidance or just a listening ear.
To find information covering diagnosis, treatments and pages covering most types of cancers check our Online Information and Support Section.
Talking to people face to face can indeed help a lot but during these strange times it’s not that available but do check to see if you have any Local Macmillan Support in your area has opened up. Do also check out for a local Maggie's Centre in your area.
Always around if you need further help in navigating the community.
All the very best ((hugs))
