Hi everyone,
I’ve had a lot of interaction with Macmillan over the last couple of years with workshops and help with all sorts, first time here though as I need some support as Im struggling with grief over my mum.
Cancer has been a big part of my life, all my grand parents died of various forms, my dad died 11 years ago from aggressive non hodgekins lymphoma, my mum had kidney cancer 20 years ago and died in march from secondary brain tumour. Three years ago I was diagnosed with two different types in my appendix, had colorectal surgery and eight months of oxy-cap and am still struggling with side effects. Jees is alot when you write it all out. I guess I try and keep my chin up but Im struggling with xmas coming up after loosing my mum as she was totally my best friend. Thoughts and hugs to all of you at this emotional time of year
kindest regards
Hi and welcome to the Online Community although so sorry to hear about the reasons you have found us, you abd your family have had a hard time but I do hope you will find lots of comfort and support here on the Online Community.
The New to Community area is like our reception where we can signpost our many dedicated support groups but I see you have joined and posted in our Bereaved family and friends group. This is a safe place to talk to other people who walking the same journey.
The Macmillan Support Line is open 8am-8pm (timings may differ across services) 7 days a week on 0808 808 00 00 or via web chat. This service provides cancer information, emotional support, benefits and financial guidance or just a listening ear.
Talking to people face to face can indeed help a lot but during these strange times it’s not that available but do check to see if you have any Local Macmillan Support in your area has opened up. Do also check out for a local Maggie's Centre in your area.
Always around if you need further help in navigating the community.
All the very best ((hugs))
