My husband is going to be discharged from hospital .He is 81 and I am 84 . I am in a dreadful state and need moral support . We have been married for 58 years and I am in denial of the situation .We don't know how long he has.. . He is too weak for chemo or radiotherapy .He has been fitted with a stent in the bile duct to clear the jaundice.. is anyone in a similar situation? Raymonde
Hi and welcome to the Online Community although so sorry to hear about your husband, this is such a hard time for all the family but I do hope you will find lots of comfort and support here on the Online Community.
The New to Community area is like our reception where we can signpost our many dedicated support groups and services so can I recommend you start by joining our Liver cancer group. This is a safe place to talk to other people who may have a similar diagnosis, treatment experience or are supporting someone on their cancer journey.
If you'd like to connect in with a group, you need to join the group. First click on the Green link I have created above. Then once the page opens click on the black banner that says [click to join] at the bottom, or the [Join] button under "Group tools."
You can then introduce yourself by putting up a ‘new post’ by clicking in the box near the top right with + New (Computers) or + (Mobile Devices). You will then see a dropdown menu so hit ‘Start a Discussion in New here, say hello’ and you are ready to go.
You could copy and paste the text from this your first post. You can also search through existing ‘Discussions’ and click [reply] if you want to put up a comment.
When it comes to the specific practical challenges of supporting someone on their cancer journey you may benefit from joining our supportive Carers only and Supporting someone with incurable cancer groups where you will connect with others supporting family and friends
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