Hi, I'm making contact on behalf of my brother who completed radiotherapy to his bladder almost 4 weeks ago. He is debilitated with urinary frequency,is not sleeping and my sister-in-law says he sits in the chair crying. He won't go anywhere as he's so afraid of accidents. His urinary specialist nurse says he's had everything she can give him. Is there someone who has had the same treatment and side effects that could give reassurance that things will improve and any extra advice? So wishing to help him.
Hi and a warm welcome to the online community
I'm very sorry to read how your brother is feeling after he completed radiotherapy for bladder cancer. It must be very distressing for him and all his family.
The online community is divided up into different support groups so I'm going to recommend that you join the bladder cancer group which is a great place to ask questions, share experiences and get support.
To join just click on the link I've created and then choose 'click to join' or 'join' (depending on the device you're using) on the page that opens. You can then introduce yourself and post in the same way as you did here and join in with existing conversations by clicking on 'reply'.
It would be great if you could pop something about brother's diagnosis and treatment so far into your profile as it really helps others when replying to you and also when looking for someone on a similar pathway. It also means that you don't have to keep repeating yourself. To do this click on your username and then select 'Profile'. You can amend it at any time and if you're not sure what to write you can take a look at mine by clicking on my username.
If you have any difficulty navigating the community just drop me a reply and I'll be pleased to help
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