Hi there
A few months ago we found out that my sister had a brain tumour, she was advised that she would have 12-18 months. She is just finished 6 weeks of radiotherapy and chemotherapy and we are waiting for further scans in February.
She is currently at home, but both my brother in law and I work full time. We have taken holidays when we can to be with her and she has lots of friends that pop in and take her out for the day but she gets very down on the days that she is in by herself.
She gets really angry with my brother in law for being out at work which is getting him down. He has struggled in the past with his mental health and I’m concerned for him.
my sister won’t talk about how she is feeling but I’ve urged my brother in law to seek help and support.
how do other people cope with this?
many thanks x
Hi and a warm welcome to the Online Community but so sorry to hear about your sisters diagnosis but I do hope you will find lots of comfort and support from people who understand here on the Online Community.
The Community has many dedicated support groups and when it comes to the practical challenges of supporting someone you may benefit from joining our supportive Family and friends and Supporting someone with incurable cancer groups where you will connect with others supporting family and friends
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Talking to people face to face can indeed help a lot but during these strange times it’s not that available but do check to see if you have any Local Macmillan Support in your area has opened up. Do also check out for a local Maggie's Centre
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All the very best.
