Hello
We are a very close family and my parents have battled cancer for 6 years amongst other things, but today we were told that my Dad has stage 4 liver/HCC and he is currently not even well enough to start sorafenib. His prognosis is less than a year and that is providing he gets well enough to start the treatment.
I have so many questions and I know Macmillan and people through experience will help us but right now I cant stop worrying about how we tell our Dads grandchildren who are absolutely devoted to him and he is to them? Has anyone got any advice
Thank you 
Hi and welcome to the Online Community but so sorry to hear about your dad’s diagnosis and the challenges around telling his grandchildren. As a grandad I can understand the issues.
You may find some of these Macmillan resources helpful on understanding childrens' reactions and also talking to children when an adult has cancer. You can also download, or order a paper copy, of this booklet.
The Community has many dedicated support groups and when it comes to the practical challenges of supporting someone you may benefit from joining our supportive Carers only and Supporting someone with incurable cancer groups where you will connect with others supporting family and friends
If you'd like to connect into this group, you need to join the group. First click on the Green link I have created above. Then click on the black banner that says [click to join] at the bottom, or the [Join] button under "Group tools."
You can then introduce yourself by putting up a new post by clicking in the box near the top right with + New (Computers) or + (Mobile Devices). You will then see a dropdown menu so why not hit ‘Start a Discussion in New here, say hello’
You could copy and paste the text from this your first post. You can also search through existing ‘Discussions’ and click [reply] if you want to put up a comment.
It’s always good to talk so do call the Macmillan Support Services on 0808 808 00 00 - most services are open 8am to 8pm, 7 days a week Clicking here to see what is available. This service provides lots of cancer information, emotional support, benefit and financial guidance or just a listening ear.
Do check out for a local Maggie's Centre as they do some great work supporting all the family.
Always around if you need further help in navigating the community.
All the very best ((hugs))
