Hi, my husband had just been diagnosed with aggressive Bladder cancer, just 5 years after a Prostate Cancer diagnosis. I think because he dealt so well with the Prostate cancer and really almost sailed through the treatment, it has come as a total blow. I know I need to be strong for him, but golly that seems hard just now. Looking for some support and maybe some experiences of life following treatment.
Hi and welcome to the Online Community but I am so sorry to hear about you husbands bladder cancer diagnosis but I do hope you will find lots of comfort and support here on the Online Community.
The Community has many dedicated support groups so can I recommend you start by joining our Bladder cancer group. This is a safe place to talk to other people who might have a similar diagnosis or treatment experience.
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