Good morning everyone,
I got diagnosed with DCIS 2 months ago not something you expect at 34 but now I realise how common breast cancer is.
I am a single mum to a 2 year old and my daughters dad doesn't help at all.
My Biggest worry is my daughter climbing over me when I come out of hospital after having my mastectomy and reconstruction.
I dont get help with childcare as I don't work and my daughter starts state nursery in January. My mum is my biggest rock but she has recently lost my step dad so I don't want to completely rely on her.
None of this has sunk in. I really don't know what to expect from recovery and mentally.
Sorry about my ramblings.
Hi and welcome to the Online Community but I am so sorry to hear that received a DCIS diagnosis and you are dealing with the challenges surrounding this but I do hope you'll find lots of comfort and support here on the Online Community.
The New to Community is like the Community Reception area. There are many cancer experiences so the Community has many dedicated support groups so can I recommend you start by joining our Breast cancer and Breast cancer for the under-50s groups. These are safe places to talk to other people who might have a similar diagnosis or experience.
If you'd like to connect into this groups, you need to join the groups. First click on the Green link I have created above. Then click on the black banner that says [click to join] at the bottom, or the [Join] button under "Group tools."
You can then introduce yourself by putting up a new post by clicking in the box near the top right with + New (Computers) or + (Mobile Devices). You will then see a dropdown menu so why not hit ‘Start a Discussion in New here, say hello’
You could copy and paste the text from this your first post. You can also search through existing ‘Discussions’ and click [reply] if you want to put up a comment.
It’s always good to talk so do call the Macmillan Support Services on 0808 808 00 00 - most services are open 8am to 8pm, 7 days a week Clicking here to see what is available. This service provides lots of cancer information, emotional support, benefit and financial guidance or just a listening ear.
To find information covering diagnosis, treatments and pages covering most types of cancers check our Online Information and Support Section.
Always around if you need further help in navigating the community.
All the very best ((hugs))
