Hi! I received my diagnosis in September, and had a single mastectomy without reconstruction last Thursday. I am recovering really well and not in any pain. I am now in limbo land waiting to hear what happens next. I am absolutely terrified and cannot stop myself reading stuff. I need some reassurance that whatever I face with treatment - that it’s doable. I read lots of sad stories about the mastectomy and luckily I was fine 1 nowhere near as bad as I’d anticipated. I’ve been told that I’m Stage 2 Grade 3 Invasive Ductal Carcinoma in Situ.
Hi and welcome to the Online Community but I am so sorry to read about your BC diagnosis.
I do hope you will find the support available in the community helpful. You will find talking with others who are walking the exact same type of cancer treatment path (my one is completely different) will help you navigate this challenging time.
The New to Community is like the Community Reception area. As there are many cancer types and experiences, likewise the Community has many dedicated support groups to allow you to connect with others who understand but I do see you have already joined our supportive Breast cancer group as this will be a good starting point.
Navigating the community will depend on the device you are using. To go to the group just click on the Green link I have created above.
You can then introduce yourself by putting up a new post by clicking in the box near the top with + New (Computers) or + (mobile devices). You will then see a dropdown menu so why not hit ‘Start a Discussion in New here, say hello’.
You could just copy and paste the text from this your first post.
You can also search through existing ‘Discussions’ and click 'reply' if you want to put up a comment.
It’s always good to talk so do call the Macmillan Support Services on 0808 808 00 00 - most services are open 8am to 8pm, 7 days a week Clicking here to see what is available. This service provides lots of cancer information, emotional support, benefit and financial guidance or just a listening ear.
To find information covering diagnosis, treatments and pages covering most types of cancers check our Online Information and Support Section.
Alway around if you need further help in navigating the community.
All the very best ((hugs))
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