Angry

Hi, I've found that when you lose someone the anger is part of grief. I really feel for you , talk to someone outside the family may help.

Hi and thanks. I'm angry at the injustice. I've joined this group as I need to talk to someone other than my family. 

It is very unfair, and sadly I dont think your dad will be the only one put in this situation.  It's still so very raw and horrific for you, it's hard to speak to those closest to you for fear of upsetting them, all I know is what you feel is 'normal' there is a whole host of emotions when you lose someone,  a real rollercoaster, you wont know how to deal with it, how could you you've not been there before. Cry, rage ,scream all normal , take time for yourself, the Macmillan counselors are good to talk to as well

• Thank you. How do I get in touch with a counsellor? I think that might be good for me.

The hospital or hospice your dad was with should be able to point you in the right direction.  Remember your not alone, and I'm happy to chat.

Ok I'll contact the hospice for some advice. Have you lost someone in similar circumstances? Im so sorry if you have.

Not during covid, but I lost my mum as a child, my sister 9 years ago and I've had breast cancer and more recently bowel cancer, so I kind of know how it feels. Keep going lovely you will get there, not straight away, in time thou.

• My aunty had bowel cancer but she ignored it and sadly passed away. She was silly not to get help. I truly hope you get better and I really appreciate your kind words and advice.

You will get through this, one step at a time, be kind to yourself and talk to a counselor.