Struggling with Husbands moods

Hi  and welcome to the Online Community.

I am so sorry to read about the challenges you are facing but I hope you will find the support available in the community helpful at this difficult and challenging time.

Talking with others who are walking the same type of cancer support path (my one is completely different) will help you navigate this unwanted journey.

The New to Community is like the Community Reception area and as there are many cancer types and experiences so likewise the Community has many support groups so can I recommend you start by joining our supportive Carers only and Supporting someone with incurable cancer groups where you will connect with others supporting family and friends

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All the very best ((hugs))

Thank you for helping me. It’s a bit of a mine filed.

I am in the same situation and it is all about him and no consideration to me and how much I’ve tried to keep the family together even to to the point where he has cheated on me since his diagnosis. I am so at my wits end that I’m not sure how to handle/cope. Xx

Hi, 

thanks for replying.

It’s soul destroying isn’t it. Your heart broken, trying to make sure the kids lives continue as normal as possible. When yours is falling apart. It’s very hard being broken for someone who does not seem to care one bit for you. At least that’s my situation. If my husband was not terminal I now question if he would even be here with us. Which breaks my heart twice. 
is your husband Also terminal?

sending love and understanding your way

Hi this is my first time on this site and reading your post made me realise that I am not alone.x

Hi  and a warm welcome to you.

The community is divided up into different support groups so if you want to look through this list you can choose the appropriate cancer specific one for your situation and this second list is for our various other Cancer experience groups.

If you need any help please shout out.

Hi, yes it is a terminal diagnosis but he is doing well and you wouldn’t even know he was ill. I’m so confused now how I’m meant to feel as the infidelity has changed my view on everything and not making him leave goes against every thing I believe in but I’m also fighting with the fact that I will be devastated when the cancer takes hold I don’t want to feel I’ve wasted time being angry I feel it is me trying to make as many happy memories as possible. 
I totally feel for you and please know that you are not alone as much as it feels that way sometimes xxxx

It was my first time on here too and I have  defiantly found comfort in knowing that I wasn’t the only one struggling. Xx

Hi, you are not alone. 

You have summed up beautifully how I’m feeling. The dread of when the day comes, how will I be able to process something that’s already so hard to process. 
Thank you for being honest and sharing your heart. It’s not something everyone on here will understand. 
xxx