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Hi 

I am a newbie to this group .I am currently supporting my beautiful mum who has just been diagnosed with grade 4 colon cancer and also kidney cancer .Unfortunately I am not doing a very good job of supporting her emotional needs at the moment as I am so scared and in a constant state of anxiety .Has anyone on this forum got any god strategies on how to be positive and take one day at a time?.

  • Hi  and welcome to the Online Community but so sorry to hear about your mum’s diagnosis and to hear how you are finding dealing with her diagnosis hard. There is no right way to do this and you just have to take each day as it comes .

    A cancer diagnosis in the family can be very challenging and such an emotional time but you might find this Macmillan information your feelings when someone has cancer helpful.

    You will however find talking with others who are walking the same type of cancer treatment support journey (my one is completely different) will help you navigate this difficult time.

    The New to Community is like the Community Reception area and as there are many cancer types and experiences so likewise the Community has many support groups but I see you have joined and already posted in our supportive Bowel (colon and rectum) cancer group as this will be a good place to connect with folks who may be on the same cancer treatment support pathway.

    When it comes to the practical challenges of supporting someone you may benefit from talking with others caring for family and friends so do check out our Carers only group where you will connect with others supporting family and friends

    It’s always good to talk so do call the Macmillan Support Services on 0808 808 00 00 - most services are open 8am to 8pm, 7 days a week Clicking here to see what is available. This service provides lots of cancer information, support, financial guidance or just a listening ear.

    We also have Cancer Nurse Team in our Ask an Expert section, but do allow two working days for replies from our expert team.

    To find information covering diagnosis, treatments and pages covering most types of cancers check our Online Information and Support Section

    All the very best ((hugs))

    Mike (Thehighlander)

    It always seems impossible until its done - Nelson Mandela

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