Hi SianmyDad39 and welcome to the Online Community but so sorry to hear about your fathers diagnosis.
A cancer diagnosis like this in the family can be very challenging and yes, his denial may well be a blessing. We have had to support parents with different medical problems who had Alzheimer’s and Dementia, it’s a very challenging time for a family.
But you may find talking with others who are walking the same type of cancer support journey helpful.
The New to Community is like the Community Reception area and as there are many cancer types and experiences so likewise the Community has many support groups.
When it comes to the practical challenges of supporting someone you may benefit from talking with others caring for family and friends so do check out our Carers only and Supporting someone with incurable cancer groups where you will connect with others supporting family and friends
To join a group just click on the link above then choose 'click to join' or 'join' (depending on the device you're using) on the page that opens.
You can then introduce yourself by putting up a ‘New Thread’ or hit the box with the X on the top right (phones), you could just copy and paste the text from this your first post. You can also join in with existing ‘Discussions’ by clicking on 'reply'.
It’s always good to talk so do call the Macmillan Support Services on 0808 808 00 00 - most services are open 8am to 8pm, 7 days a week Clicking here to see what is available. This service provides lots of cancer information, support, financial guidance or just a listening ear.
We also have Cancer Nurse Team in our Ask an Expert section, but do allow two working days for replies from our expert team.
To find information covering diagnosis, treatments and pages covering most types of cancers check our Online Information and Support Section.
All the very best.
