I lost my brother in September and I feel numb. It’s not changed, he was 31 years old and I feel I’ve lost a leg.
I didn’t cry at the funeral, I just haven’t cried. Until now. I’ve made so many mistakes the last few months and I feel my bereavement has clouded my judgement. I’m missing things and not paying attention. Has anyone else felt this is the way their bereavement is going? No concentration, missing things and just no energy?
Hi and welcome to the Online Community but sorry that you had to find us. I am especially sorry to hear about the loss of your brother, my sincere condolences.
I lost my mum back in November, not cancer but rather sudden and unexpected. As I am Clinically Extremely Vulnerable I was not allowed into hospital where she was as the ward she was in was not Covid secure, it was hard but looking back it was the correct decision for the rest of my family…… we continue to celebrate a life well lived and her memories will last for ever.
I see you have join our supportive Bereaved family and friends group as this will be a good place to connect with other family members living through this challenging time.
To go to the group just click on the link above then introduce yourself by putting up a ‘New Thread’ or hit the box with the X on the top right (phones), you could just copy and paste the text from this your first post. You can also join in with existing ‘Discussions’ by clicking on 'reply'.
It’s always good to talk so do call the Macmillan Support Services on 0808 808 00 00 - most services are open 8am to 8pm, 7 days a week Clicking here to see what is available. This service provides lots of support or just a listening ear.
All the very best ((hugs))
Hi and welcome to the online community
Please accept my condolences for the loss of your brother. I can see that you've joined the bereaved family and friends group and I'm sure that when you feel ready to post there you'll get lots of support from others who have a lost a loved one to cancer.
There is no right or wrong way to cope with bereavement and you might find it helpful to look through this information from Macmillan.
Sending a virtual ((hug))
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