Hi Big cally 75 and a very warm welcome to the online community
It's completely natural to feel like you do but you've done the right thing in reaching out to this community as there's nothing like talking to others who've had a similar experience.
The online community is divided up into different support groups so I'm going to recommend that you join the bowel cancer and secondary lung cancer groups where you can ask questions, share experiences and get support.
To join these groups just click on the links I've created and then choose 'click to join' or 'join' (depending on the device you're using) on the page that opens. You can then introduce yourself and post in the same way as you did here and join in with existing conversations by clicking on 'reply'.
When you have a minute it would be great if you could pop something about your journey so far into your profile as it really helps others when answering or looking for someone with a similar diagnosis. It also means that you don't have to keep repeating yourself. To do this click on your username and then select 'Profile'. You can amend it at any time and if you're not sure what to write you can take a look at mine by clicking on my username.
If you have any difficulty navigating the community just drop me a reply and I'll be pleased to help.
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