Since my diagnosis in December 2019 I haven’t used anything like this to reach out for advice but lately I feel like myself and my family need some extra support but I’m unsure where to even start. I was diagnosed with stage 3 breast cancer and I was 30 weeks pregnant with 2nd child at the time . It was an awful time having to go though breast surgery while still being pregnant but the birth of my son got me though the dark days and since then I feel like it’s just been a whirlwind of ups and downs with chemo rounds and trying to be the best mum I can inbetween. I’m currently on my second lot of chemo and after 5 rounds I’m ready to give up the treatment! The side affects are hitting me so much harder then last time and my recent scan results has shown a mixed response to the treatment? Has anyone else had this and then found a treatment that worked for them? I have been looking into alternatives and I feel a little lost. I have an appointment with my oncologist soon and I don’t have a clue where to go from here.
The stress of this is also starting to show on my partner and I’m unsure who he should talk to and if he will even do it?
Hi and a warm welcome to the Macmillan Online Community but sorry that you needed to find us and especially sorry to hear about your BC diagnosis and ongoing challenges.
A cancer diagnosis in the family brings many questions, lots of confusion and stress but talking with other people who are on the same type of journey will help you navigate this rollercoaster.
The Community is organised into dedicated support groups so can I recommend you join our supportive Breast cancers group, this will be a good place to connect with others navigating the same type of cancer journey.
To join a group just click on the link above then choose 'click to join' or 'join' (depending on the device you're using) on the page that opens. Then you can introduce yourself by putting up a ‘New Thread’ or hit the box with the X on the top right (phones) you could just copy and paste the text from this your first post. You can also join in with existing ‘Discussions’ by clicking on 'reply'.
It’s always good to talk and the Macmillan Support Services provides lots of information, support, financial guidance or just a listening ear. This would be a good place for you and your husband to start as these folks are amazing.
Most services are open 8am to 8pm, 7 days a week and it's free to call on 0808 808 00 00 have a look by Clicking here to see what is available and we also have our Ask an Expert section, but do allow two working days for replies from our expert team.
((hugs))
