Hi,
I am 56 and was diagnosed with bc in October. ( 18 mm, er+ grade 3) I had a lumpectomy on 2nd December 2 nodes removed and they came back negative. A biopsy was sent for the Oncotype test. That score has come back as 40 and I am waiting for an appointment to see the oncologist to discuss chemo. I realise it’s my choice, but I think I have to go for it. I just feel very nervous and anxious about it. Does anyone have any words of wisdom?
Thanks
Hi and a warm welcome to the Online Community, a Community that no one really looks to see themselves joining, and so sorry to hear about your BC diagnosis.
A cancer diagnosis brings a lot of confusion, stress and many questions but talking with other people who are on the same type of journey can help a lot.
The Community is organised into support groups so you may want to start by joining our supportive Breast cancers group as this is the place where you will connect with others walking the treatment journey both as patient or family.
Follow the above link then choose ‘click to join' or ‘join’ when the page opens. You can then introduce yourself, post questions or just join in with existing discussions by clicking on 'reply'.
It’s always good to talk and the Macmillan Support Services provides lots of information, support, financial guidance or just a listing ear.
Most services are open 8am to 8pm, 7 days a week and it's free to call on 0808 808 00 00 have a look by Clicking here to see what is available and we also have our Ask an Expert section, but do allow two working days for replies from our expert team.
Our Online Information and Support Section is a good place to find information covering diagnosis, treatments and pages covering most types of cancers.
All the very best.
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