Hi and a very warm welcome to the online community
I'm so very sorry to hear all that you've been through and are still going through. It must all feel overwhelming but I'm glad that you feel able to reach out to this community for support.
As the community is divided up into various groups where you can ask questions, share experiences and get support I'm going to suggest a few for you to think about joining.
You mention that you have been diagnosed with VIN3 so you might want to join the vulva cancer group as that group is also for those who have VIN.
Joining the bereaved family and friends group would give you a safe space to share your feelings and receive support while in the supporting someone with incurable cancer group you could discuss your emotions about your mum's diagnosis as well as practical issues.
To join all or any of the groups just click on the links I've created and then choose 'click to join' or 'join' (depending on the device you're using) on the pages that open. You can then introduce yourself in the same way as you first posted here.
If you need any help finding your way around I'll try my best to help.
Sending a virtual ((hug))
"Never regret a day in your life, good days give you happiness, bad days give you experience"
