Hi. My names Kate, I’m 46 and after finding a lump 2 weeks ago I have today been for a mammogram, an ultrasound and a biopsy. Consultant said he was ‘worried’ about what he had seen. Someone is calling me on Thursday between 2-4 to tell me the results and tell me what happens next. I’m trying to pretend everything is normal for the kids but keep going to the toilet to cry. Don’t know what to do with myself really.
Hi Kate and a very warm welcome to the online community
I'm very sorry to read that you have a worrying lump but it's great that you don't have long to wait for your results.
As the community is divided up into groups I think you might benefit from joining the breast cancer group where you can talk to others who have had the same type of cancer as you and will understand how you're feeling.
To join just click on the link I've created and then choose 'click to join' or 'join' (depending on the device you're using) on the page that opens. You can then introduce yourself and post questions and join in with existing conversations by clicking on 'reply'.
When you have a minute, it would be really useful if you could pop something about your journey so far into your profile as it really helps others when answering or looking for someone with a similar diagnosis. It also means that you don't have to keep repeating yourself. To do this click on your username and then select 'Profile'. You can amend it at any time and if you're not sure what to write you can take a look at mine by clicking on my username.
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"Never regret a day in your life, good days give you happiness, bad days give you experience"
