Hi, My husband died 5 weeks ago and don’t know what to do with myself. Try to keep going , but miss him. Realise how much I depended on him and feel our future has been robbed . He was young and kept his cancer a secret so also difficult . I cared for the last few months at home and know I wasn’t always as kind and helpful as I should of been . People are kind , but have their own lives and I feel so alone .
Hi and welcome to the Online Community, a Community that no one ever really plans to see themselves joining, and so sorry to hear about the loss of your husband, please accept my deepest condolences.
I think you would benefit from talking with other people who are on the same type of journey and I see you have joined our Bereaved spouses and partners group, this is the place where you will connect with others navigating this journey.
Follow the above link then introduce yourself, post questions or just join in with existing discussions by clicking on 'reply'.
Its always good to talk and the Macmillan Support Services provides lots of information, support or just a listing ear.
The service is open every day 8am to 8pm and it's free to call on 0808 808 00 00 have a look by Clicking here for more information.
You can also email them, use the online chat and we also have our Ask an Expert section, but do allow two working days for replies from our expert team.
All the very best.
