Hi my partner is in hospital after having op for mouth cancer. I don’t even know where to begin. Everything has happend so fast, from been diagnosed to having op.Everything has just hit me like a tone of bricks. I feel lost.
Hi and welcome to the Online Community, a Community that no one ever really plans to see themselves joining, and so sorry to hear about your partners diagnosis.
A cancer diagnosis brings a lot of confusion, stress and many questions and yes, you can feel lost but talking with other people who are on the same type of journey helps a lot.
The Community has various support groups so can I direct you to our Head and neck cancer group as this is the place where you will connect with others walking the treatment journey both as patient or family.
Follow the link I've created above then choose ‘click to join' when the page opens.
You can then introduce yourself and post questions selecting '+New' or '+' (depending on your device) you can also join in with existing discussions by clicking on 'reply'.
You may also find our Carers only, and Family and friends groups a great benefit as you will connect with others supporting family through their cancer journey.
The Macmillan Support Services provides lots of information and support. The service is open every day 8am to 8pm and it's free to call on 0808 808 00 00 have a look by Clicking here for more information.
You can also email them, use the online chat and we also have our Ask an Expert section, but do allow two working days for replies from our expert team.
All the very best.
Thank you So much ihave joined the family and friends group.
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