My wife was diagnosed in December and from there its just gone down hill non operational tumour spread to limpnoods tried chemotherapy to shrink and contain it no joy had to stop kept getting infections in hospital more than out shes now just gone into a hospice they've told us that the aim is to get her well/comfortable enough to get home. All this time I've tried to keep my emotions in but now can't just keep breaking down and crying a few times in front of her I find it hard to ask or speak or even writing this
Hi and welcome to the Online Community, although I am sorry to see you finding us and so sorry to hear about your wife’s diagnosis - this must have been a big shock to you.
A incurable cancer diagnosis can bring a lot of stress, confusion and many questions but talking with people who are on the same journey can help a lot so can I highlight our very supportive Supporting someone with incurable cancer group as a very good place to connect with others supporting family through this very challenging journey.
Posting in this group will open up your concerns to a wider group of people who know exactly what you are going through at the moment.
Follow the link I've created, join the group then introduce yourself to the group and post questions after selecting 'start a discussion' and you can also join in with existing conversations by clicking on 'reply'.
You may want to put some information in your profile as this can help a lot. Click here to see how to add details as this helps everyone to see a little about you and how best to reply to you.
All the very best.
