Hi just like to find out more. My MIL had a mastectomy a couple of months ago now has secondary cancer in chest which cannot be treated. I think they call this terminal altho no ones said that yet. I've no idea about what to tell her about what's in store for her. Just want to help her. We're at the start of this journey but have no idea how long it is. Macmillan are in touch and we will be meeting soon for palliative community support (I think it's called). Hospice have also called her but I've not spoken to them yet. Any guidance is helpful. Sorry don't have all the questions yet either, don't know what I don't know! Thanks. Great idea this forum x
Hi and welcome to the Online Community, although I am sorry to see you finding us and so sorry to hear about your mother in laws diagnosis - this must have been a big shock to you.
A cancer diagnosis like this can bring a lot of stress, confusion and many questions but talking with people who are on the same journey can help a lot so can I highlight our very supportive Supporting someone with incurable cancer group as you will connect with others supporting family through their cancer journey.
Posting in this group will open up your concerns to a wider group of people who know exactly what you are going through at the moment.
Follow the link I've created, join the group then introduce yourself to the group and post questions after selecting 'start a discussion' and you can also join in with existing conversations by clicking on 'reply'.
You may also find our Carers only group also a benefit.
Can I also highly recommend our various Macmillan Support Line Services - you can call them free on 0808 808 00 00 This service covers Emotional Support, Practical Information. Clinical Information, Financial Support and Work Guidance mostly open 8.00 to 8.00 but check the link......... BUT this is very busy at the moment so you will have to keep trying.
You may want to put some information in your profile as this can help a lot. Click here to see how to add details as this helps everyone to see a little about you and how best to reply to you.
All the very best.
