Hi - just joined the site looking for some advice about what help I can give to my parents. They are self-isolating from corona virus as over 70 and dad has bladder cancer. Struggling to work out how / whether I can give them physical / practical help after his op to remove cells in this situation? We don't live together and I'm worried about infecting them with corona virus by visiting and also while he's in hospital. On the flip side, physically it's a lot to fall on mum's shoulders if he is weak / unwell after his op. Not sure what to expect or how best to help. TIA
Hi and welcome to the Online Community, although I am sorry to see you finding us and so sorry to hear about the challenges you are having.
A cancer diagnosis can bring a lot of stress, confusion and many questions but talking with people who are on the same journey can help a lot so can I highlight our very supportive Carers only and Family and friends groups a benefit as you will connect with others supporting family through their cancer journey.
Posting in these groups will open up your concerns to a wider group of people who know exactly what you are going through at the moment.
Follow the links I've created, join the groups then introduce yourself to the group and post questions after selecting 'start a discussion' and you can also join in with existing conversations by clicking on 'reply'.
This site is organised into various support groups so we do have lots of groups that are Cancer specific and also ones that are general Cancer experience groups.
Can I also highly recommend our various Macmillan Support Line Services - you can call them free on 0808 808 00 00 This service covers Emotional Support, Practical Information. Clinical Information, Financial Support and Work Guidance mostly open 8.00 to 8.00 but check the link and you may also find our Ask an Expert section helpful...... but it is rather busy due to the virus.
You may want to put some information in your profile as this can help a lot. Click here to see how to add details as this helps everyone to see a little about you and how best to reply to you.
All the very best and ((hugs)) from a distance.
