Hospital appointment

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I am really wondered about my partner in these uncertain times. He hasn't been diagnosed with cancer. But, he went to the doctors last Tuesday as one of his testicles is bigger than the other and has lifted upwards. The doctor said he would contact the hospital and arrange an ultrasound. How, long does it usually take for the letter to come through? I'm worried that he is just going to be pushed under the carpet and that they are not going to make him an appointment due to what is happening at the moment. I have urged him to chase the doctor up but he won't. He said he has already done the right thing going to the doctors in the first place. 

  • Hi  and welcome to the Online Community, although I am sorry to see you finding us and so sorry to hear about the challenges you are facing.

    This has only been one week since he has seen his GP - this is a very short period of time for the NHS system to work on it's best days.

    Waiting for Tests can be very hard. The time this will take depends greatly on what priority his GP put on the requests. If it was classed as a routine ultrasound....... then he is on the waiting list and depending where you live this can be weeks or even months.

    Yes, you do need to talk with his GP to see what priority was put on the ultrasound as if he was referred under the two week (cancer) rule then even for the best hospitals, this is often not even being meet...... and with what the NHS is dealing with at the moment, if his is test was not marked as a priority, it won't be.

    Call his GP, get clear information as this will reduce the stress.

    A cancer investigation can bring a lot of stress, confusion and many questions but talking with people who are on the same journey can help a lot so can I first highlight our very supportive Testicular cancer group.

    Posting in this group will open up your concerns to a wider group of people who know exactly what you are going through at the moment.

    Follow the link I've created, join the group then introduce yourself to the group and post questions after selecting 'start a discussion' and you can also join in with existing conversations by clicking on 'reply'.

    Can I also highly recommend our various Macmillan Support Line Services - you can call them free on 0808 808 00 00 This service covers Emotional Support, Practical Information. Clinical Information, Financial Support and Work Guidance mostly open 8.00 to 8.00 but check the link and you may also find our Ask an Expert section helpful.

    Our Online Information and Support Section  is a good place to find information covering cancer diagnosis, treatments and pages covering most types of cancers.

    You may want to put some information in your profile as this can help a lot. Click here to see how to add details as this helps everyone to see a little about you and how best to reply to you.

    All the very best and ((hugs)) from a distance.

    Mike (Thehighlander)

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