CT Scsn tomorrow after the biopsy confirmed that what they found on the colonoscopy Is malignant. Worried and confused because tests in May were ok and the colonoscopy was just a precaution due to family history. I keep thinking of the positives in as much as I’ve gained weight and I generally feel ok. BUT my bowel movements are different and have been for a while which is why I had the tests in May. Scared of the worst as is my wife and 2 daughters.
I am told treatment nowadays has advanced but that word CANCER is frightening and I have it!! I guess I have to prepare for battle
Hi and a second welcome to the Online Community, although I am sorry to see you finding us and so sorry to hear that you find yourself on the cancer rollercoaster.
Some simple reassurance from me, 20 years ago so was diagnosed with a rare type of Non Hodgkins Lymphoma and told that I would never be I would never see remission, indeed told that my condition would get me some day done year but was not given a calendar....... zoom forward 17 years and I am in remission and told I will most likely die of old age. Don’t be scared of cancer but take control of the battle you can fight and that is the battle between the ears.
A cancer diagnosis can bring a lot of stress, confusion and questions but talking with people who are on the same journey can help a lot.
I see that you have joined our very supportive Bowel (colon and rectum) cancer group, this will open up your concerns to a wider audience who know exactly what you are going through at the moment.
Just follow the link above, hit 'Start a Discussion' tab and set up your own Discussion and introduce yourself to the group - you could just copy an paste what you have in this first post.
You may find our various Macmillan Support Line Services to be helpful - call them on 0808 808 00 00 This free service covers Emotional Support, Practical Information. Clinical Information, Financial Support and Work Guidance mostly open 8.00 to 8.00 but check the link.
We also have our ‘Ask an Expert’. section where you can post questions to our mostly Volunteer Experts but please allow 2 working days to get a reply.
Our Online Information and Support Section is a good place to find information covering cancer diagnosis, treatments and pages covering most types of cancers.
Talking to people face to face can help a lot so check to see if you have any Local Macmillan Support in your area or a Maggie’s Centre as these folks are amazing.
When you feel up to it try putting some information in your profile. This really helps others when answering. It also means that you don't have to keep repeating yourself. Just click on YOUR username, select 'Edit Profile'. Put as much or as little in your profile and you can amend it at any time - you can see members profiles by hitting our forum names.
All the very best x
