Chemotherapy

FormerMember
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I am worried abput my upcoming four cycle chemo treatment. I am not getting the anseers I want at oncology ss they ssy everyone is different. But i want to know how ill and for how long I am likely to be as my son is currently staying with me but needs to return to work. I do not have any family and wonder if it will be posdble to cope on my own. I have had a left lung lobectomy 2 months ago and still ver.y breathless

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Hi

    Welcome to the community - although I am sorry you have had to find us. It was the exact same question that brought me here, over five years ago, as I struggled to understand what life on chemo would be like. The doctors and nurses could not really tell me - they said everyone was different as they slid a long and terrifying list of possible side effects across the table. I needed to know if I would be able to pick up my kids from school or book a weekend away. The women in the womb cancer group were able to answer my questions. Yes, they said, every one reacts slightly differently but this is what happened to me... They described a pattern of days just after the chemo when they felt rotten, then gradually starting to build up strength. I found I fitted into this pattern. I was able to plan m y life and understand which days I would need help and which I would be able to carry on as normal. 

    I had womb cancer and so a specific chemo regime. I think you have lung cancer? It's likely the chemo is a bit different. Let me assume that's right but tell me if I am wrong. 

    I suggest you join the lung cancer group and pose your question there. I hope you will find people who have been there, done that and are happy to share their experiences. Click on the highlighted text, join the group and go to the 'Start a Discussion' tab just under the main group name. Set up your own Discussion and Introduce yourself to the group - you could just copy an paste what you have in this first post.

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    We also have our Online Information and Support Section where you will find some great pages covering the cancer diagnosis, treatment and information pages covering most types of cancers.

    Talking to people face to face can help a lot so check to see if you have any Local Macmillan Support Groups in your area or a Maggie’s Centre as these folks are amazing.

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    I hope you will find some answers

  • Hi  and welcome to the Online Community, although I am so sorry to see you having to find us.

    I am sorry to hear you are concerned about your on going treatment. Going through chemo can for some be very hard work but it has to be done to achieve a positive outcome for your treatment.

    Indeed everyone will react to treatment so differently but talking with people on the same journey.

    So follow the information you have been given.

    Mike (Thehighlander)

    It always seems impossible until its done - Nelson Mandela

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    FormerMember in reply to Thehighlander

    Thank you