Hi, I’ve just joined today as diagnosed on Wednesday last week, complete and utter shock, not expected at all, have CT scan tomorrow and MRI next week, feeling very scared, life suddenly turned upside down.
Hi and welcome to the Online Community, although I am so sorry to see the circumstance that brought you here and so sorry to hear you have been given a cancer diagnosis.
A cancer diagnosis can bring a lot of stress on a family but talking with people who are on the same journey will help a lot.
If you can tell us more about the type of cancer you have been diagnosed with we can direct you to the best support groups we have.
Hi again, sorry to hear this. My cancer journey was rather different but follow this link to our Bowel (colon and rectum) Cancer Forum where you will me folks on the same journey,
Follow the link and join the group. To do this hit the ‘Join the Group’ tab just under the main group name. At this point go to the right on the group home page and select how you want to receive email notifications when someone answers your posts. If in the future you don’t want to receive notifications just switch off the email notifications tab.
You can look through all the discussions in the forum by hitting the ‘Discussions’ tab. But the BEST WAY to get support is to go to the 'Start a Discussion' tab just under the main group name. Set up your own Discussion and Introduce yourself to the group - you could just copy an paste what you have in this first post.
Have a look through our various Macmillan Support Line Services then call them on 0808 808 00 00 to be very helpful covering Emotional Support and Practical Information. Clinical Information and Financial Support and Work Guidance mostly open 8.00 to 8.00 but check the link.
We also have our ‘Ask an Expert’section where you can post questions to our mostly Volunteer Experts but please allow 2 working days to get a reply.
We also have our Online Information and Support Section where you will find some great pages covering the cancer diagnosis, treatment and information pages covering most types of cancers.
Talking to people face to face can help a lot so check to see if you have any Local Macmillan Support Groups in your area or a Maggie’s Centre as these folks are amazing.
It is worth putting some information in your profile. This really helps others when answering. It also means that you don't have to keep repeating yourself.
To do this click on YOUR username, look to the left and select 'Edit Profile'. Put as much or as little in your profile and you can amend it at any time - REMEMBER hit the big green SAVE before you leave the page. If you're not sure what to write you can take a look at any members profiles by clicking on their username.
All the best.
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