I have been in remission for nearly three years after mastectomy six rounds of chemo and fithteen rounds of radio .unfortunately I was told recently that my cancer has spread to my bones and am starting new treatment . Not really sure how I'm feeling at moment after slowly getting my life back first time ! This isn't curable but is treatable . Just wanted advice or support from anyone in the same situation
Hi and a very warm welcome to the online community
That must have been a great shock to you after being in remission for three years to discover that your cancer has spread to your bones. Although I've not been in your position I can understand how devastating this must be for you.
Could I suggest that you join the secondary breast cancer group so that you can ask questions and get support from others who'll understand just what you're going through.
To join just click on the link I've created and then choose 'join this group' on the page that opens. To ask a question or introduce yourself select 'start a discussion'. You can also respond to existing posts by clicking on 'reply'.
When you feel up to it, it would be really useful if could pop something about your journey so far into your profile as it helps others when answering or looking for someone with a similar diagnosis. It also means that you don't have to keep repeating yourself. To do this click on your username and then select 'Edit Profile'. You can amend it at any time and if you're not sure what to write you can take a look at mine by clicking on my username.
Sending a supportive ((hug))
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