First day with Mum home & caring for her

FormerMember
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Hi all, 

I'm feeling very anxious today as Mum was discharged from first round of chemo yday eve & it's my first day of caring for her in my home, but she was sick this morning and just wanting to sleep today. Am worried as her meds came back up (called helpline & they said not to re-administer the strong pain killers). She has kept down another anti-sickness tablet but has not wanted to eat a thing. I know I should just let her sleep, but the thought of her not eating & looking so ill is making me worried. She is very pale & temperature was a little high, but ok now. She is Day 6 from chemo so all to be expected I guess. Hopefully she'll accept some food & more meds later, I guess I just need to keep trying... Any tips would be much appreciated though - thank you.

  • Hi  and a warm welcome to the online community

    Caring for someone can be a very worrying as well as rewarding time. I see that you've already found the carers group and I think if you post this message there you'll get lots of support. 

    If you're not sure how to get back there just click on the link I've created then select 'start a discussion' to create a new post. You could then copy and paste your message from here to save you typing it out again.

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember in reply to latchbrook

    Oh, thank you! I'll do that Slight smile