Hello . This is my first time posting in any online group but i am looking for some advice and or if anyone has had similar experiences.
my dad has terminal laryngeal cancer with liver lung and bone mets, he’s currently in hospital with blood clots on his lungs and had raised calcium in his blood .
i have had no support from the nurses or doctors and have only seen palliative care twice , he has been in hospital for 5 weeks but was briefly discharged last week home , and lasted two days , he is unable to care for himself and has no mobility or ability to take his meds correctly , he was home with care package and I was going in everyday .
the problem now is he wants to go home again which I feel is in no way a safe option , I cannot manage and it is not enough. Care for him , but what do I do ? When I think hospice is more appropriate but he is having none of it .
