Partners emotions lung cancer

FormerMember over 6 years ago

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I need help. Don't know how to console him. He had a breakdown, wants to cancel surgery. He's scared, fed up and worried he may not come out OK once operation is performed. I can't say anything to help only sit and listen and try to console him. I feel bloody useless

FormerMember over 6 years ago

I am so sorry you feel like this and to hear about what your husband is going through. It sounds like a tough time.

There are plenty of people who have been through lung cancer surgery and come out ok. There’s a lung cancer group in this community where others might advise you.

https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer_types/lung-cancer/

There are also groups where you might get some support. It certainly sounds like you need it. It can be a real help to know that someone is listening and maybe facing something similar. Have a look at our family and friends and emotional issues groups.

https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer_experiences/emotional_issues/

https://community.macmillan.org.uk/cancer_experiences/being_a_relative_/

It can help to speak to someone in person. You can speak to someone in confidence by calling Macmillan Support on 0808 808 0000 - 365 days a year 8am to 8pm It's free from mobiles and landlines. The friendly team are waiting to take your call.