i have only left the house for hospital appointments in the past 4 years. 2020 came covid and I was diagnosed with breast cancer. because of chemo and the rest of it including surgery. I had to protect myself since my immune systems was weak.
now diagnosed with brain cancer, it cannot be cured.
I have gotten so used to be at home and with my brain cancer that I don't want to go out at all.
no more morning coffee with friends, no more lovely lunches and yet, I don't miss it.
I am 75 and have had an amazingly interesting life, I am saturated with life, and now all I want is to me home and potter about.
the problem is that I am getting judge from every direction for staying home. but I am most happy, comfortable and connected to the internet.
Hi Xaviva
I'm sorry to read that others are judging you. It's difficult sometimes when people give their opinion, I know it leaves me unsettled and questioning. Just this week, I've declined a meet up with previous colleagues. I've had a difficult few months mentally and I know that if I'd gone, even though it would be lovely to see them, I know I'm not in a place to be unsettled further.
I think if you've been unwell, as you have, for a number of years, your energy levels deplete after all you've been through. People that are well don't understand this. If you are happy as you are, at home, then I think you've got to put yourself first and do what pleases you.
A x
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