Out of sorts

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  • Just having a off day not done much today not even left the house .my son visited for an hour are 2 bt could not concentrate on anything he was saying. Hubbies home always asked if OK I snapped thought by now I would have my feelings in check but my god today I could literally curl up and die.  Feel as though I've hit a brickwall  when will my feelings stop creeping up on me . Can't complain about my family always their for me but I feel so alone 
  • Hi Dotty

    Your not alone, we are all here, in the good times and the bad.

    Come here when ever you want, scream, rant, moan, cry, laugh, what ever emotion you are having at the time.

    We have all had them as such, we get down days, then we come back up.

    Vent away here and no one will judge you, as we may have been the same. No curling up to die here, well not today, or tomorrow.

  • Hi Dotty

    Sorry that you feel so down. Wish I could give you a real hug. Sometimes we all feel like that, this disease is so unfair and takes so much from us. Hang in there and there will be better days when you can make it up to your family. They love you, they will understand that you’re feeling down. 
    Big virtual hugs

    Jac x

  • You're in no way alone Dotty, you have much support here in our group available 24/7. Not one of us has never had a moment when things hit us and we can break down too. I still think about my cancer 200 times a day. Hope you'll get through it Dotty.


    Love life and family.
  • Hi Dotty,

    Completely understand where you're coming from. You're not alone at all. 

    I don't know about you but I sometimes feel almost guilty about telling them how I'm feeling because they're living their own pain too but it's hard to explain truly how you're feeling some days.

    Know there's tonnes of support here always, especially on those bad days.  


  • Hi Dotty.

    We are all here to support, each and everyone of us knows how you feel, you are allowed a bad day it happens even to those who don't have cancer. Take it as it comes. For now I'm sending you a big hug and prayers.


  • Thank you feeling a little better today xx

  • Feel guilty for feeling down but I try not to let my family see as everyone says we are all going through it so I try not to put to much on them and my husband is a tower of strength and staying strong for us all but I do here him at night when he's alone crying but he always says he's fine he feels guilty cose it's me what has it not him cose he's not looked after him self like I had but told him cancer is not prejudice and will attach its self to whom ever it wants .Been out for a  lovely walk this morning to blow the cobwebs away  feeling a little better and thank you all for the kind words xxx