Hi

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I was diagnosed with incurable lining of the lung cancer last October. 
it was a bolt out the blue. I’m 77 and have kept myself super fit. Climbing mountains, hills, walking miles with my dog. Plus attending up to 7 fitness classes a week. I stopped smoking 43 years ago. 

I’ve had 4 cycles of chemo and had a MRI scan yesterday to see if my cancer is responding to treatment. It’s been a hard and scary road to climb. I’m so glad that I’m connected to fellow incurable cancer patients who will understand. I was born hard of hearing so I never like using the phone. 

Mentally I go into meltdown when I think what my life was like and what it’s like now and wondering what the future holds. But yesterday I had a lovely day. After my MRI scan we took a trip up the North Wales coast and had fish n chips by the sea and we walked the dog along the front. 

I’m surprised that there are such a variation of treatments. My 1st and 2nd chemo was awful but my 3rd was a bit better, probably because I knew what to expect. My 4th wasn’t as good as my 3rd. It was hard not being able to talk to someone to compare their experiences but now I have you. 

thank you

Judy 

  • Not sure whether I can change. I’m happy to stick with him for now. A woman I met recently though is very unhappy with him and tried to change but was told she’d have to go to Colchester for treatment which is about 45 min drive away and a bit far for her to go as she’d have to use public transport. It would have to get really bad for me to change oncologist I think. Your oncologist sounds so lovely. Smiley people in our lives are such s blessing. Sounds like you’ve lucked out there Judy! 
    love Jac x

  • That’s so sad. It’s bad enough having cancer without the added stress of not feeling secure with your oncologist re: the lady you know.  I’ve also got a husband who takes me wherever I need to go. I count my blessings one by one. 
    Judy x