I've got what? You gotta be joking!

Totally get where you are coming from I went from all clear go live your life to first check up 6 months later oh sorry its terminal it really does make your head spin some days

Hi Kiwi gal,

Dont know if you have posted here before, but welcome anyway. yes thats quite a ride you have had in terms of diagnosis out of the blue. The practical stuff is important and then you are freed up to get on with the rest of what you want to do - living, laughing, criying etc.

x

Yep, your right it's all a roller coaster . Sometimes ya hold on and scream and sometimes you just gotta raise your arms and yell TWANDA! 

If you haven't seen Kathy Bates in Fried Green Tomatoes that last statement may seem bizarre. 

Love that film .

When in doubt channel that f***k you attitude she had. 

Could become addictive though

Think I'm a natural, part laid back kiwi, part kick arse.

I'm also stalked by my crazy cockerpoo who seems to have gotten even more clingy since this shit show began. But dogs are pretty smart although going to the toilet alone sometimes would be nice. 

Cancer is obviously making me prone to oversharing lmao

That's the name of the game is trying to stay positive on an even keel and having as many laughs as you can as you put it it's really hard to do sometimes but I think with your attitude you will crack it xx