Where to start

Yes go ahead i will listen

Everyone listens, someone may be having the same trouble as you. You are not alone.

always some one here, though we all have a different type of cancer though all incurable, we help each over, listen, have a rant, what ever the moment calls for

Thank you for your quick reply, I don't even know if I'm in the right forum (hurdles everywhere lol). I need to talk and texting I'm OK with. I have incurable anal cancer secondary vulval immunotherapy treatment seems to be doing well but my external lumps are growing. I've recently met someone and wonder do I broach the subject or just accept it won't go anywhere 

I'm not really operational any more, worse things than that.

You could speak with  Macmillan councillor, they would put you on the right track.

Not everyone is looking for the same thing in a relationship,  best wishes. Michael.

i could only speak from if it was me,

I would have to approach the subject and be honest with them, for me either way, i would have nothing to lose,,

why just accept it will not go any where, you do not know, either way its a catch 22, be honest, and see what the out come is, Yours is a very personnel type of cancer, and yes you can not hide it as such,

I hope others come here for you, there is a group for anal and vulva cancer, here you have all different types, you could try them as well, and still stay here.

how long you been on immunotherapy 

Just approaching a year 

How long can you have it for

Thanks again for the reply, just feel I sound negative when all people want is positivety like you say catch 22