Where to start

Yes go ahead i will listen

always some one here, though we all have a different type of cancer though all incurable, we help each over, listen, have a rant, what ever the moment calls for

Thank you for your quick reply, I don't even know if I'm in the right forum (hurdles everywhere lol). I need to talk and texting I'm OK with. I have incurable anal cancer secondary vulval immunotherapy treatment seems to be doing well but my external lumps are growing. I've recently met someone and wonder do I broach the subject or just accept it won't go anywhere 

i could only speak from if it was me,

I would have to approach the subject and be honest with them, for me either way, i would have nothing to lose,,

why just accept it will not go any where, you do not know, either way its a catch 22, be honest, and see what the out come is, Yours is a very personnel type of cancer, and yes you can not hide it as such,

I hope others come here for you, there is a group for anal and vulva cancer, here you have all different types, you could try them as well, and still stay here.

how long you been on immunotherapy 

Just approaching a year 

How long can you have it for

Thanks again for the reply, just feel I sound negative when all people want is positivety like you say catch 22

No one has said but most online sites are saying 2 years max

Immunotherapy is the new way forward in a lot of cancers these days, even though there are different types,

I did well on mine for lung cancer, i finished two years in Dec2018, and only last yearhad to have small dose of radiotherapy,  so for you things may improve.