I just got home from Christmas shopping to discover that my local hospice (Phyllis Tuckwell, Farnham) had delivered a fabulous bag of goodies. They are so amazingly kind. I have a make your own potpourri kit, a make your own Christmas tree decoration, a mug and tea/coffee/biscuits and various leaflets. I had a little cry because they are so thoughtful and they make me feel so cared for.
I hope not to be an in patient for a year or two yet but they run a lot of living well with cancer courses, always ring up to check how I am and also offer support for carers. If you are lucky enough to have one local to you then contact them, you won't regret it.
Hi Nicky Nosher
There are some lovely people in this world, aren't there? My cockles have just been warmed
Take care and stay safe Nicky
Tvman xx
Hi Nicky Nosher that's a lovely thing to do and shows you're in good hand there.
I was referred to our local hospice at the beginning of the year and had an initial assessment. We booked several appointments and I felt like I'd uncovered a whole new level of support for me and my family. Then we went into lockdown so the appointments had to be cancelled, and shortly afterwards I had a letter discharging me from the hospice. They said it had been a difficult decision but in the light of the pandemic they could no longer offer me anything. No doubt funding played a part, the hospice is an independent charity and relies heavily on donations.
I'm hoping that things will change again with the vaccine. Several of our group have spoken of the importance of establishing a good relationship with your local hospice sooner rather than later. Of course it's not for everyone. But it is for me, if possible. xx
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