I am new on this site as not had my operation yet, that’s 11th August 26 , just looking for any information people are willing to share. I have already been told I will have a stoma fitted (if that’s the right word) really don’t know what to expect. Does it hurt all the time, do you have to change the type of cloths you wear? Can the stoma leak? Etc etc
Hi Julin
You have already joined the bladder group. If you click on your own name, you can see which groups you are in. Click on the group, and it takes you there.
Under your own name when you look at your page, you will see “activity”, and if you click on that, it will show you all the posts you’ve replied to or made in any of your groups. You’ll soon find your way around the community!
Sarah xx
Please don’t worry about it. The forum can be difficult to navigate at first. But ask any questions and you’ll get advice and guides on how things work around here!
All of us were new at one point and had to learn, so we’re happy to help you.
Sarah xx
Neil
Nell26
sorry about delay reading your comments am away having a break prior to surgery and the internet here is almost not existent, I think it will Come more real once the operation is done, though sooner the better as in pain at present. Really worried how people will react if they realise. Hope you get more used to your stoma soon, I have no idea how long it will take me
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