Well here i am again at 4.30 in the morning and i can't sleep yet again!! My husband Darryl has terminal small cell cancer and, at the moment is going through a really good phase. Which, i would have thought, would set my mind at rest and enable me to sleep. But no, here i am again having had 2 hrs sleep tonight wide awake with mad thoughts running around my head!! This is driving me crazy and i just seem to be on auto pilot all the time. Darryl is 44 years old and we have been given a prognosis of a 2-3 year life span for him. I can't seem to let go of this thought, and maybe part of me can't sleep because of that, as i feel if i'm asleep i'm wasteing precious time!! Darryl is sound asleep and resting well, and if i stay upstairs next to him listening to his breathing, i keep thinking is this the last time i'll ever hear that and end up getting so uptight and worried that i find it better to just get up again. So i wander round the house do a few chores, have a hot caffiene free drink and will myself to sleep all to no avail i might add!! hahaha surely i'm not the only carer who never sleeps, or am i????? any comments gratefully recieved. Take care my friends and hope your all sleeping well. love and hugs mel xxx
Hi Juls Think we should split it evenly don't you? Where about's does Rose live, not in a small village that doesn't do a lot of banking? I think Alison has probably fallen asleep, don't you think?? xxxx
hey my chickie Juls and Teresa I'm gonna have to go now chickies as Daley and Kirsty can't sleep and are busy wondering around the house i think they really need me at the mo. Sorry to have to love and leave you hope you both have a better day tomorrow and that you sleep well Hope to catch up again very soon MUch love and big hugs sweet dreams night night love MHM xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
